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Hi there, lovely people! Life has been absolutely wonderful and perfect the past couple of weeks. On Monday the 13, I moved to Maui with the love of my life. Because we have not yet gotten internet at our place and we can only be in a cafe for so long…

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cosmicwitchcraft:

I really dislike when people put to much emphasis on the female aspect of nature and not on the masculine.

A lot of neo pagans and wicca say something along the lines of “well the female is the most powerful”. Which is untrue.

The fact of the matter is just because females have the power to hold life in them doesn’t mean they are the most powerful.

Usually the next point they make is “well in most animals the female hunts and is bigger” 

Well guess what we are not most animals, females and males are both the hunters.

Males have just as much as a hand in making life as a female. You can’t make life without the semen bubbling away in a man testicles. 

I think neo pagans and wiccans should really be a little more open minded on subjects that involve the male aspect as the main figure. Or the use of masculine energies.

Just a random thought. 

I think it’s important that we place a lot of emphasis on feminine energy because of the overdose of masculine energy that the world has had to endure the past 2000+ years. But, I see your point - males have just as big a hand in the creation of life as women do, and it’s unfair to completely ignore them. Total matriarchy (as opposed to the total patriarchy that has been around) is not necessarily the answer - a balance of both creative energies is what is truly needed.

So, I adore my boyfriend. Love him more than anything. We’re moving into our first apartment together and we’re so excited and happy.

There’s only one thing that’s an issue, and he hasn’t even realized it’s an issue…

He doesn’t seem to respect my spiritual path at all. He will interrupt me in the middle of spiritual practice (to the point that I don’t even practice when he’s around) as if what I’m doing is insignificant. He will put random stuff on my altar, like his cell phone or the screws he’s using to fix something, as if it’s just a regular side table as opposed to a sacred space. There was one incident when we were in Maui, I was walking a seaside labyrinth in meditation and song, thinking he wouldn’t bug me since he was off taking pictures of the ocean, but when I got to the middle of the labyrinth and sat down to give my offerings, he just waltzed right through the labyrinth, stepping over the lines, to come bug me and ask me when I was going to be ready to leave.

I’ve tried talking to him about this, but he gets massively irritated and can’t seem to understand why I feel his actions are so insensitive and disrespectful.

I don’t want to have to put my spirituality on hold all the time when he’s home (he’s a fisherman, so he goes away a lot), but I don’t want to get into an argument with him every time I want to do a ritual or spell or a meditation.

Does anyone have any suggestions?